tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8179574244505335597.post1797784580651134414..comments2023-03-26T03:46:37.450-04:00Comments on Get Yo Shyt: Wanting a married man. Should I?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05727645024404567385noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8179574244505335597.post-85436950198238241552008-07-22T11:06:00.000-04:002008-07-22T11:06:00.000-04:00I am married, so my moral judgement and meter says...I am married, so my moral judgement and meter says don't do it. My reality meter says that there are married folks every day who are unhappy but won't leave the marriage for whatever reason (scared, don't want to hurt the other person, convenience, children, etc.). Leaving a marriage is never cut and dry: "He'd leave her and come to you to be happy". How easy it is to say that when you are single, lol. When I was single, I thought the exact same way. 18 years ago. Today, however, I realize that life has many gray areas. My husband and I have been through many ups and downs, we both have contemplated leaving and life has taken plenty of unexpected turns. Things that when I was single I NEVER thought I'd go through.<BR/> (But we're stiiiiillll together!)<BR/><BR/>If you feel like sneaking with a married man is going to be hard to deal with, then by all means don't do it. But be clear, he probably won't leave his wife, and even if he did, you'd never be able to trust him. He's a cheater, after all. Not that once a cheater always a cheater, but that's what we all think. All I'm saying is make the decision that you can live with.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8179574244505335597.post-76187981669632217912008-07-21T21:06:00.000-04:002008-07-21T21:06:00.000-04:00Mel, Mel, Mel...DON'T DO IT....We are both LEO's s...Mel, Mel, Mel...DON'T DO IT....We are both LEO's so believe me I got ur back. But please heed by these words"DO ONTO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD WANT THEM TO DO UPON TO YOU! Mel you of all people should know this..Look at all the bullshit that you went through with BD and Digital...Leave well enough alone...I'm not even married, but basically been in a 11 yr relationship with my kids father and I swear, when I found out that he had cheated on me I felt just as betrayed like we were married and I was ready to kill somebody..That shit don't feel good at all..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8179574244505335597.post-12856793316027714982008-07-21T14:41:00.000-04:002008-07-21T14:41:00.000-04:00Dang Jaycee, I feel so convicted. [sigh] Back to s...Dang Jaycee, I feel so convicted. [sigh] Back to square one. I swear I change my mind about this shit every two weeks. I'm gonna have to garner some discipline from somewhere. And you too, Wanting. We can do this. Damn he called us thieves and shit. LOL. We gotta do better. <BR/><BR/>Thx for reading, Jaycee.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05727645024404567385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8179574244505335597.post-20830113553981724802008-07-21T13:41:00.000-04:002008-07-21T13:41:00.000-04:00Hey Mel, tell ole girlbump that! Keep that shyt in...Hey Mel, tell ole girl<BR/>bump that! Keep that shyt in the past. If he had wanted you he would have been with you a long time ago. Just smile, say thanks for the memories and stay away from each other. No contact except a nice xmas card from the families. And only that! <BR/>He belongs to his wife and you would be a theif! <BR/>Jayceeachoiceofweaponshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14742415077326783252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8179574244505335597.post-51591504223531690512008-07-21T13:37:00.000-04:002008-07-21T13:37:00.000-04:00Don't do it! Flee! Danger! Danger! Danger! I know ...Don't do it! Flee! Danger! Danger! Danger! <BR/>I know that it's good but the cost is just too high! Even if y'all don't get caught, y'all both know! <BR/>You know he's a cheater! You know you a cheater! And you both feel like crap! <BR/>He belongs to someone else. It doesn't matter if he's happy or not because if he is unhappy then leave and come to you and get happy! Take that plunge but we know he won't! Is your door open for him to come and stay? Nah, <BR/>No, God has made plenty of men who I assure you can put it down and are single and availible. Don't sell yourself short. True is you two don't value each other cause you wouldn't be talking like this. But maybe this can be a distant but great friendship if you build it on good things like honesty and trust instead of sneakiness and lies.<BR/>Respectfully<BR/>Jayceeachoiceofweaponshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14742415077326783252noreply@blogger.com